I own The Burdens of Being Upright, which was Tracy Bonham's debut album. I know when and where I bought it.
March 12, 1997, Circuit City, Henrietta NY.
I still almost forgot this song existed, and that's a shame, because it's a great song. It opens with some manic VIOLIN playing by Bonham, and ping-pongs between noise-filled frenzy and quiet thoughtful verses. It is a nearly perfect and criminally overlooked song.